"Categories" of Teen Lovers!

Disclaimer : After reading the following entry you will feel like relating the people mentioned here to some of the people who affect our lives in some or the other way. I just want to say it is "purely intentional."

Attraction towards the opposite sex starts in Teenage and it is fun phase in life! Teasing each other,relationships etc etc.!! Unknowingly these things help us learn a lot & like everything we see different types of Teenage "love". After observing and talking to many of my friends. I have shortlisted about 7 categories of different Teenage 'lovers' Hope you can relate to AT LEAST one of them!

1.Despo Category:
These kind of people are large in numbers once we enter our colleges after 10th. They are "DESPERATE" for a relationship or just want a fling. They just want to show off!! Most of the times, these relations don't last very long..!
2.Break-up....patch up....Break up....patch up...category:
Even I was a part of this category once..! And I agree this is mostly for publicity! :P But...the main problem with these people are they think that ONLY solution after a fight is break-up! So, most of the times it isn't a break-up but just a fight!!
3."Love" does not exist category:
These are very unique! Neither do I understand why are they afraid of saying they are infatuated towards someone at this age nor do I know why can't they accept the simple fact that these things keep on happening in Teenage! I do agree that "love" is a "heavy" word to use in Teenage but..I mean..c'mon yaar..you losing a major part in your teenage
4.BORED! But still in a relationship category:
I have seen numerous examples of these kind of people. It's just that they have been in a relationship for quite a long time now and both of them know that they are "used" to each other. Breaking up with that person will mean starting from a scratch! And who knows whether they will again get the girl/boy they want ! So what these kind do is keep avoiding problems when the only "practical" solution is parting ways!
5.Still waiting for that right one category:
There are a majority of girls in these categories! But the people who are in this category LOVE to flirt! They know that they can keep on saying..I am waiting for that right guy/girl and enjoy life!
6.I-just-want-to-get-PHYSICAL:
These category people are adored by the people who LOVE gossiping! X & Y were sitting hand in hand! She was sitting behind him! They smooched etc etc!! These kind of people just want to DO these things and that's all what matters to them! Guess they don't know where their limits are! ;-)
7.Remaining ones:
The above ones are the prominent categories! Remaining ones include people like self-proclaimed bro-sis category who tell everyone..."NO! Y are u linking me up with her...she is like a sister!!" These kind of people are simple cowards who don't have the bloody guts to say that he/she is my best friend and nothing more! Why to fake relations for that !

Well...I just hope you can relate yourself somewhere! If not...would love to know some new "categories"

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Change - The Essence of Life

After asking lots of people...what should I write....was stuck really! Did think of writing Teenage Relationships Part - 5! But, well...people think it is for publicity! Actually...what people think changes over a period of time and why not..?? There would have been no fun in life without change!

But there is always good change and bad change! Be it in Social Sciences like a revolution which a slow and steady change or in Science where you can see fast change is the states of matter or be it life where you can see people change drastically!

Complicating simple things is never difficult for anyone! So...things like "love" , "change in behavior of people" are NEVER complicated, its the "situation" that makes you think it is complicated.

For example, I believe no human being is innately bad, its just the situation in which he is forces him to take actions which hurt us and make us feel that he is wicked and stuff..!

As for change in behavior of people...it can vary from person to person and again depends on the scenario! But, be it your best friends, family or anyone...people do change! They are human beings after all.!

The quality that we must have is to accept all the "positive" things in the changed person and move on with it. It so happens that the change is too much to handle and things can get ugly and relations can get spoiled!
You can't just get up one day and decide...I am going be like this from today..!! I do agree that we need to change with time but being yourself and getting accepted in the society is the real "happiness" in life than portraying yourself as someone else just for sake of getting accepted!

"Change" also initiates a hunger for Revenge in minds of many people and THAT is going to be my next topic! If you have any small incidents about "Revenge" you can mail it to me at gajoshi@gmail.com Privacy guaranteed.!

P.S - In the last entry I had written about "वाया जाणं"! Thanks a lot for your answers! Indeed helped me a lot! Hope you respond in the same way and share your experiences about taking Revenge! :)

3 Idiots.....The Movie.....FREAKING AWESOME.....

The idea of Aamir Khan, Sharman Joshi and R Madhavan coming back on screen after the magic of Rang De Basanti was itself a major factor for people to get excited for this movie. Add to this The duo of Rajkumar Hirani and Vidu Vinod Chopra and the EXCELLENT music of Shantanu Moitra, u can surely expect a BLOCKBUSTER in true sense.

‘3 Idiots’ is one of the most entertaining movies of the decade that is sure to make you laugh your heart out. The movie is based on the simple theme but is presented in such a fine and delicate manner that you feel it hard to take your eyes off the screen even for a minute. Rajkumar Hirani proves himself a magician in creating the same magic of ‘Munnabhai MBBS’ and ‘Lage Raho Munnabhai’. After spreading the message of ‘Jaadu ki Jhappi’ and ‘Gandhigiri’ Rajkumar Hirani brings out a new code of mantra ‘Aal izz well’ in his newest flick, ‘3 Idiots’.

But the first thing you realise about this film is not that a 44-year-old Aamir Khan can play a 22-year-old college kid, and he can get away with it. Well, he does. Kareena Kapoor is her usual self in the movie and does nothing to impress the audience though she looks great in the "Zoobi Doobi" song which reminds you of "Woh Ladki hain Kaha" from "Dil Chahta Hai".Boman Irani is the same disciplinary character and has taken his character ahead this time with his well- portrayed mannerism.R Madhavan has done an excellent job and Sharman too has matched the
performance. Needless to say, the film would have gone bad if there was anyone else in these roles. All have been perfectly cast!!

As Raju Hirani says, this film is about five per cent of Chetan Bhagat's bestseller Five Point Someone. There are some scenes which have just come right of the book.
Like always Rajkumar Hirani brings out a message in this movie too, which is tells you about chasing your dreams and living your life on your terms.

The film is actually a fairly serious take on a cruel examination system that gets passed off for an education system in this country.We produce IIT graduates who take up high-paying jobs. We don't make original thinkers who could pick up a Nobel prize for an invention. (I hope all my IIT Aspirants friends will agree!!)

THe only problem in the Film....would be is its length, and that is big enough an issue. A 20-reeler – ‘3 idiots’ is 3 hours long!! But..Hirani, however, is lucky to have an actor as strong as Aamir Khan to provide the backbone to his characters.

Dialogues are snappy and totally effective ("In India, you get a pizza in 30 minutes guaranteed but not an ambulance"). The soundtrack, background score and cinematography is top class. Well....this was the first movie I have ever seen where people gave a standing ovation after the movie is over.

If you thought Aamir Khan couldn't get any better than he is, think again. Aamir is the heart and soul of 3 Idiots and he proves why he's simply a class apart. I would say to people who are comparing him with other actors like Shah Rukh, "boss you are wasting your time, Aamir has excelled and...success uske peche zhak marke gayi he!"


Beautified with performances, 3 Idiots is a good watch which is sure to leave you with a smile and mantra “All izz well”.

2012....The movie....CRAP!!!

UNFORTUNATELY.....I planned last minute to go with my friends to a movie called "2012". Waste of money!! The only thing that I went was I was very curious to know about the things that would be shown regarding that year(Post for that after this)


If you have seen a single advertisement for 2012, you know what this movie is. I’m not saying you know the plot (as if it mattered) or anything like that. You know that the world ends in a spectacular fashion and all you have to do then is extend that out to 2 ½ hours and you have a movie that is completely boring to the point of exhaustion.

The real tragedy is this: 2012's production cost an estimated $200-odd million dollars. What's worse, it'll probably make that money back, spawning a sequel called 2013. I hope...the director spares us that horror!!

And if this movie turns out to be an accurate vision of our future, then at least our cell phones will work no matter how little of the Earth remains, planes will be so easy to fly that someone with only two flying lessons can co-pilot a cargo plane, and our cars and even our campers will have the handling to make razor sharp turns.

With such an exciting world, it’s a shame that the neutrinos in our planet’s core change so that the entire crust of our planet shifts. I wonder....how the Mayan's knew about this??

Overall...I would rate the movie 1/5...ONLY BECAUSE OF the great effects and...just because...they have shown the destruction of U.S.A?? :)

English defines class...does it??

Actually....I had almost stopped writing my blog....but after some incidents...I thought it was necessary to put forward my views.....

I know many people who think that speaking in english makes them of a higher class....these are not the people who dont know or understand marathi (my mother tongue) but they think that speaking in marathi is very down-market (that's what "they" say)

There are many young people(14 above ) or as a matter of fact even some middle-aged people....who are not ready or rather I must say disgusted or feel low-class speaking their mother tongue!!! English is a language accepted globally, I agree....but that doesn't mean people become high class if they speak in English.....I have many friends who speak in English just because they are comfortable with it....but they do it with due respect to other languages....but these so called "HIGH CLASS" people just dont care....today.....I have many friends....who refuse to call their parents 'aai' and 'baba' i.e. mother and father in marathi.....they prefer mom and dad over it.....this is just an example...there are loads of other instances...

These are the people who would curse leaders like Raj Thackrey....because what he says is true though I dont justify the methods which he uses.....I would like to appeal to all the people that please speak in whatever language you wish but NEVER side-line anybody or just make fun of somebody just because that person doesnt speak english....

I can see this situation in big cities.....I hope that this is not the situation in other states of our motherland and hope that people will atleast stop their superiority complex....

Students and Politics

Do students ever think of Politics? Most of them must not be thinking of it. The question whether students should take part in politics has brought up many debates....especially does not care about Politics. Politics is so called dirty game. But I never agree to this. Of course, it has some disadvantages. No need to tell that people who enter this exciting game should be mentally strong. But for students it is only wastage of time, distraction from studies. Politics covers all the interests of life-Political, economic, social and cultural. Being a politician is not easy. He has to be skillful. He should have a fair amount of knowledge in history geography, economics and other allied subjects. He should have the power and skill of Public Speaking. He should have to skill to make people understand things from his point of view. Not all Politicians are bad....and we can increase the number by joining it......