Disclaimer : After reading the following entry you will feel like relating the people mentioned here to some of the people who affect our lives in some or the other way. I just want to say it is "purely intentional."
Attraction towards the opposite sex starts in Teenage and it is fun phase in life! Teasing each other,relationships etc etc.!! Unknowingly these things help us learn a lot & like everything we see different types of Teenage "love". After observing and talking to many of my friends. I have shortlisted about 7 categories of different Teenage 'lovers' Hope you can relate to AT LEAST one of them!
1.Despo Category:
These kind of people are large in numbers once we enter our colleges after 10th. They are "DESPERATE" for a relationship or just want a fling. They just want to show off!! Most of the times, these relations don't last very long..!
2.Break-up....patch up....Break up....patch up...category:
Even I was a part of this category once..! And I agree this is mostly for publicity! :P But...the main problem with these people are they think that ONLY solution after a fight is break-up! So, most of the times it isn't a break-up but just a fight!!
3."Love" does not exist category:
These are very unique! Neither do I understand why are they afraid of saying they are infatuated towards someone at this age nor do I know why can't they accept the simple fact that these things keep on happening in Teenage! I do agree that "love" is a "heavy" word to use in Teenage but..I mean..c'mon yaar..you losing a major part in your teenage
4.BORED! But still in a relationship category:
I have seen numerous examples of these kind of people. It's just that they have been in a relationship for quite a long time now and both of them know that they are "used" to each other. Breaking up with that person will mean starting from a scratch! And who knows whether they will again get the girl/boy they want ! So what these kind do is keep avoiding problems when the only "practical" solution is parting ways!
5.Still waiting for that right one category:
There are a majority of girls in these categories! But the people who are in this category LOVE to flirt! They know that they can keep on saying..I am waiting for that right guy/girl and enjoy life!
6.I-just-want-to-get-PHYSICAL:
These category people are adored by the people who LOVE gossiping! X & Y were sitting hand in hand! She was sitting behind him! They smooched etc etc!! These kind of people just want to DO these things and that's all what matters to them! Guess they don't know where their limits are! ;-)
7.Remaining ones:
The above ones are the prominent categories! Remaining ones include people like self-proclaimed bro-sis category who tell everyone..."NO! Y are u linking me up with her...she is like a sister!!" These kind of people are simple cowards who don't have the bloody guts to say that he/she is my best friend and nothing more! Why to fake relations for that !
Well...I just hope you can relate yourself somewhere! If not...would love to know some new "categories"
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EXCELLENT!! a very apt description to nearly all the people..somebody comes in one or the other category..i did give one example 4 each.. :-p btw..i wanted 2 add one more category...the category of SADIST ppl...
ReplyDelete8.SADIST category: some ppl really tend to be sadist to the core.They simply cant stop cribbing, meaning they dnt open up to their partners and after this obviously their relationship doesn't last long.
This could be called the most funniest(even more funnier than the 6th) category..however only 4 those who have really met such ppl n completely understand my piont of view!! rofl!!
Gud one gaurav..waiting for more!! :-p
gr8 article gaurav..keep it up!!!!!
ReplyDeletegood one..but i would like to add more :)
ReplyDelete9.Omg...Was that love? :O
i dont noe how many can relate to this category but i think;being a teenager..involves a lot of confusion and unpredictable nature..so it is obvious that u cant conclude on wat ur heart actually wants..it is also d time where our egos are on extremes..and so v "TELL" ourselves..and keep convincing ourselves that..v r nt atracted 2 mr x...and dat turns out to b "AN APPARENT TRUTH"o_O
It strikes much later wen...mayb things are out of control...(if u are a lucky bitch..then mayb even bfore dat :P)..that There was something..um..mayb...Lo...L-O-V-E :|
Late current*
another imp one*
ReplyDeleteCOMMITMENT PHOBIC :O
there are so many losers who are roaming around with this fear...just afraid to get their delicate hearts a heartbreak causing life n death issues :O
there is "i like u"..and then "you like me"..but nothing more :O
what kinda safe playing is this ?:O
Coward*
The 'I like dis guy/gal, but I'l date another guy/gal to make him/her jealous' catagory
ReplyDeleteANOTHER CATEGORY:REALLY IN LOVE: I GUESS THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO ONCE WERE OR MAY BE STILL ARE REALLY IN LOVE WITH SOME PERSON...N WHO UNDERSTANDS WHAT LOVE IS...THEY MITE HAVE EVEN EXPRESSED THEIR FEELINGS TO THAT PERSON..BUT TO NO AVAIL...!!!! THEY GET NOTHING IN RETURN BUT JUST SORROW...WHEN SUCH THINGS HAPPEN THE SUFFERER JUST LOSES PATIENCE SOMEDAY N LOSES TRUST IN LOVE..DOES NOT BELIEVE IT EXISTS OR DOES NOT BELIEVE THAT WE CAN REALLY GET LOVE SOMEDAY...!! N THEN BECOME THE PESSIMISTS OF ALL KINDS..! NO SELF BELIEF!! :)
ReplyDelete@bhagyashree: hmn...in both your categories you can relate to atleast somebody na??..urself maybe... :-p :D but both are true nonetheless!!! haha!!
ReplyDelete@ojas..i can relate to the my first one more..
ReplyDeleten m sure..u cud relate to ur addition too :P
Hey Gaurav,
ReplyDeleteVery well written Gaurav!!! liked it....:)
n yeah....i guess now all da categories are over!! so hav no category to add on....
N yeah agree wid u!!
love to read ur blogs..keep writing!!! Waiting for ur new topic...:P :P
7th category patli..."manleli bahin mhanje socially accepted maitrin" category !
ReplyDeletethere is rather another category, worse actually than bhagyashree's second category,a mixture of the despo category and the commitmentphoebic crowd, ppl who dont quite understand the meaning of the word commitment...(ya vishyavar barich charcha karaychi ahe)...heheh
avadla mhanun hava karun svatahachya relation sathi "serious" sarkhe shabda vaprun nantar dusrikade "grass is greener" karat janare....
views can be different on whether a person can be morally right to like someone else and still use the word "committed" to ever describe what they actually had....
categorically speaking i think such ppl are crap...
keep the writing work going
dude!lai bharie!aavadla..........!!
ReplyDeleteget over urself dude! stop talking about love!
ReplyDeletethere's one more category...the i hate all guys/girls category- they are usually people who are just out of a bad relationship and have had not so good experiences that cause them to blame not jus the individual but the whole gender itself
ReplyDelete@ Ojas
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading!
Yeah..I do agree with your category!! :)
@ Bhagyashre,
ReplyDeleteI agree with your was that love category...and yeah it does happen in Teenage that we are confused. As for your 2nd category, sorry...but I somewhat beg to differ. I do agree with some points that it is cowardliness.But...it's there wish after all whether they want to get into a relationship or not! We can't force them.
And if it so happens that they like each other but not into a relationship and either of them starts liking someone else then it's their mistake!! So...obviously it has its own risks!
Thanks for commenting...Keep reading! :)
@ Tanvi, Prachi & Sahil
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot..! Keep reading! :)
@ Rohan..
ReplyDeleteYeah..I do agree but that's like the EXTREME stage of it and that is bad!
We can just wish that none of our close ones will have to go through it!
Thanks for commenting and Keep reading! :)
It is same all these years. Earlier years one more category existed . ' Mute "
ReplyDeleteThey will never express there liking/love to anybody and watch she/he marrying some body else. But today Marriage is not the end point of any love story hence Mute process must be present witout " The End "- Abhay
as much as is this article projects keen observations n insights of teenage behavior..tht much it is disappointing to see tht so much of time is being wasted by the teenagers on experiencing and writing abt the experiences of such superficial and glamorous topics. I'd blame the television and the other media exposure, which sadly easily available to the delicate young minds. I hope the writer cares and writes about more useful and serious topics than this and break this vicious circle of being trapped in the fashion of cool talks, which is not in reality very cool. New Perspective in needed..thts all i can say...
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onces a teenager, never an adolescent
I agree with the previous Mr. Anonymous... Gaurya Commerce aslya goshti karayla ghetlas ka? Abhyas kar... Vel ghalvu nakos...
ReplyDeleteyou sure must be lying int he first category...
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous...
ReplyDeleteSure...if that's what you feel. :)
Thanks for reading.
Cheers,
Gaurav
Great blog..
ReplyDeleteI would like to add one more category,..
.....THE ONE WHO KEEPS THE RELATION NOT BECAUSE FOR SHOWING OFF OR FOR ATTRACTION OR FOR THE THING THEY FEEL THEY R IN, THATS LOVE, BUT FOR THAT THEY BELIEVE THEY WOULD HURT OPPONENT'S EMOTIONS N AFTER THAT HE/SHE WOULD NEVER WILL COME IN CONTACT AS HE/SHE WAS, AS A FRIEND ...... N THESE PEOPLE KNOW THEIR PERFECT LIFE PARTNER IS NOT YET MET ,THEY START BELIEVING THE WRONG ONE TO BE THE ONLY ONE OF THEIR DREAMS... WHEREAS THEY STILL BELIEVE TO MEET THE MR/MISS.RIGHT IN THE FUTURE.........