Thursday, October 7, 2010

Insecurity....never spares anyone!

After having thought on many topics on which I can write...I finally chose this one. "Insecurity".
This word when asked as a question might be the one of those whose answer is always negative.
Example: One friend to another: Are you Feeling insecure? Friend: NO! Why the hell would I feel insecure. Sometimes....it is true indeed, like all other feelings this can be misunderstood as well. But it happens rarely.

As the title says...Insecurity...it ACTUALLY never spares anyone. You can see it right from a baby child of about 1 year who cries when someone goes near his mother to a man of about 50years who might get insecure in a financial difficulty.

Getting insecure is basically losing your confidence when its regarding your work...and getting jealous when its regarding relations. The positive part is that Insecurity never discriminates....be it anyone, one has to face it. Jealousy...Envy....Insecurity are 3 painful things. Somewhat related to each other. They happen in every teenager's life. Be it not getting invited to a certain party OR not looking good as someone else is OR wanting to posses something that you don't have. You can see these qualities everywhere.

Getting insecure out of the limit results in relations getting dirty which may result in ugly fights.
Frustration on that person OR trying to get even closer to that person OR Sulking is what most insecure people do. But getting insecure shows the true feelings of a person. I mean...insecurity is something that can be rarely faked. So when someone somewhere...is getting insecure because of you. You do mean a lot to that thing/person

Lastly...I would say, having learned from my "insecure" experiences...what we can do is treat it just like other feelings such as happiness,love,anger etc. We should just try and NOT cross that LIMIT.

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